swingles

Ponder this swingles...

Someone I know in the office is a 40+ year old female who is still single. She is attractive (pretty face, trendy, slim, free hair, sociable) and financially capable (has own condo, car, good salary) but admitted she was previously very choosy when selecting her potential husband.

Now, she declared that she regretted being so choosy and dropped her criterias, and threw them as far away as she can. At her age she is so desperate to get married that she will marry any decent man that comes along - if only they would ask for her hand in marriage.

People around her are trying to get her a partner... she even requested us to help. But no one seems to want to marry her. She is now in the 'back shelves'.

I see it with my own eyes how this lady wants to be loved, have children, have a family, to grow old with someone. She loves to see pictures of Lyana and Aneesa but can only dream of having her own. Pity.

To the swingles out there... if you have intentions to build a family but being too choosy, consider the story above while you are still 'in the market'. Because once you get past a certain age, the demand can be very-very low and you might even lose hope.

Forever single ones, ignore this unsolicited advice.